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Matthew ‘Femi Adedoyin is a polymath and a blend of gifts. He is an internationally known abstinence advocate, a family life therapist, a results coach, a performance consultant, a dynamic and prolific teacher, a humorist, a strategist and a child psychologist. He is a certified practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) whose forte lies in neurological re-patterning, results technologies and ericksonian hypnosis. He is one of the youngest and finest sex recovery experts in Africa. He is referred to as the “Apostle of Sexology” due to his ardent fight for human sexual purity and a healthy sex life.


In 2013, he was awarded the most prominent sex recovery consultant and relationship coach in Nigeria. He is an authority when it comes to issues of leadership, relationship, self-development, parenting, sexuality education, sexual purity and abstinence mastery.


APOSTLE as he is fondly called is an acronym for Abstainer, Preacher, Oracle, Speaker, Trainer, Leader and Engineer. He is the Principal Consultant at Abstinence Icon Resource Consult, a child/youth advocacy, family life and sex recovery consultancy firm with a mandate to raise sexually pure leaders, build healthy homes and heal ailing families.


He also doubles as the visionary of Maximum Impact Network, an organisation passionate about raising sex pure leaders with outreaches including G–Cube (God, Guys, Gals) and Sex–Pure Centric with Matthew. He is the convener of the annual VAL SPECIAL (an event used in inculcating the real essence of St. Valentine’s day) and IMPACT SUMMIT (a conference put together to raise sexually pure entrepreneurs, employees, leaders, change agents, nation builders and politicians etc).


Matthew is also the Chief Executive Officer at Impact World Creation, a graphic, online messaging, branding and publishing firm that brands souvenirs and clothes as well as publishing books with excellent innovations and packaging. His articles have been featured on many local and international magazines, newsletters, newspapers, bulletins and online media. He is the publisher of, an online journal that teaches sexual purity, leadership and self development.


Mr. Pure Sex as some of his friends call him is a computer hardware and software engineer by training, a preacher by divine orchestration, a writer by accident and sex recovery consultant by experience. He is a recipient of many awards and he is in high demand as a speaker at conferences, seminars, religious institutions, campuses, camps, workshops and trainings.


Ask Matthew what he wants in life and he will say: “I want to reflect God on earth by giving people a life better than what they have got”.


Matthew is single and lives in Lagos, Nigeria.